Sebastian Faulks famous quotes

You put your time where your priority is.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Priorities

People never explain to you exactly what they think and feel and how their thoughts and feelings work, do they? They don't have time. Or the right words. But that's what books do. It's as though your daily life is a film in the cinema. It can be fun, looking at those pictures. But if you want to know what lies behind the flat screen you have to read a book. That explains it all.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Fun #Lying #Book

Memory is the only thing that binds you to earlier selves; for the rest, you become an entirely different being every decade or so, sloughing off the old persona, renewing and moving on. You are not who you were, he told her, nor who you will be.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Memories #Moving #Self

Our own choices might not be as good as those that are made for us.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Choices #Might #Made

The function of music is to liberate in the soul those feelings which normally we keep locked up in the heart.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Heart #Soul #Feelings

Inhale and hold the evening in your lungs.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Evening

Oh, the sweetness of giving in, of full surrender.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Giving #Surrender #Sweetness

Have you ever been lonely? No, neither have I. Solitary, yes. Alone, certainly. But lonely means minding about being on your own. I've never minded about it.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Lonely #Mean #Solitary

The end-of-summer winds make people restless.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Summer #Wind #People

We're deaf men working as musicians; we play the music but we can't hear it.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Men #Play #Musician

One thing about London is that when you step out into the night, it swallows you.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Night #Steps #London

From an early age she had developed the art of being alone and generally preferred her own company to anyone else’s. She read books at enormous speed and judged them entirely on her ability to remove her from her material surroundings. In almost all the unhappiest days of her life she had been able to escape from her own inner world by living temporarily in someone else’s, and on the two or three occasions that she had been too upset to concentrate she had been desolate.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Art #Book #Two

. . . she read with undifferentiated glee . . .
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Glee

It was entirely silent and I tried to breathe its peace.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Peace #Breathe #Silent

Gradually the feeling wears off, and I feel swamped again by the inexplicable pettiness of being alive.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Feelings #Alive #Inexplicable

There you are, sir. There's nothing more than to love and be loved.
-- Sebastian Faulks

My direction? Anywhere. Because one is always nearer by not keeping still.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Stills

And sometimes in life, I imagine, good things do happen. Most of the time, it's the opposite, obviously. But I don't think you should rule out the possibility that just occasionally chance might deal you a good card.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Thinking #Opposites #Cards

Lonely's like any other organism; competitive and resourceful in the struggle to perpetuate itself.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Lonely #Struggle #Resourceful

It was too difficult. People weren't prepared to put in the hours on the donkey work - you know, dates and facts and so on. I think in retrospect my generation will be seen as a turning point. From now on there'll be a net loss of knowledge in Europe. The difference between a peasant community in fourteenth-century Iran and modern London, though, is that if with their meager resources the villagers occasionally slipped backward, it was not for lack of trying. But with us, here in England, it was a positive choice. We chose to know less.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Loss #Thinking #Iran

I don't like being rumbled, I like to be invisible.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Invisible

The thunder of false modesty was deafening.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Modesty #Thunder

They're so attached to their patterns that they've forgotten rule number one of human behavior: there are no patterns. People just do things. There's no such things as a coherent and fully integrated human personality, let alone consistent motivation.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Motivation #Numbers #People

The best thing is the combined effect of nicotine with alcohol, greater than the sum of the two parts.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Two #Alcohol #Nicotine

It's only after the change is fully formed that you can see what's happened.
-- Sebastian Faulks

I think I have fallen in love and I believe the woman in question, though she has not said so, returns my feelings. How can I be sure when she has said nothing? Is this youthful vanity? I wish in some ways that it were. But I am so convinced that I barely need question myself. This conviction brings me no joy.[…]I am driven by a greater force than I can resist. I believe that force has its own reason and its own morality even if they may never be clear to me while I am alive.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Believe #Thinking #Vanity

I don't find life unbearably grave. I find it almost intolerably frivolous.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Graves

I want to be careful not to throw all this away. This is happiness. I think this is what happiness is. I haven't got it yet, but I can sense it out there. I feel I'm close to it. Some days, I'm so close I can almost smell it.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Thinking #Smell #Want

I suppose I was lucky enough to be educated at a time when teachers still thought children could handle knowledge. They trusted us. Then there came a time when they decided that because not every kid in the class could understand or remember those things they wouldn't teach them anymore because it wasn't fair on the less good ones. So they withheld knowledge. Then I suppose the next lot of teachers didn't have the knowledge to withhold.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Teacher #Children #Kids

I breathed and breathed and did feel some calmness enter in, though it was, as always, shot with a sense of loss. Loss and fear.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Loss #Shots #Calmness

Knowing one was comprised of recycled matter only and that selfhood was a delusion did not take away the aching of the heart.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Heart #Knowing #Matter

This intimacy is not necessary; no one is compelling me to open my inmost self and lay it naked, undefended, against that of another – merely for the joy of the communion.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Self #Joy #Naked

My own diagnosis of my problem is a simpler one. It's that I share 50 per cent of my genome with a banana and 98 per cent with a chimpanzee. Banana's don't do psychological consistency. And the tiny part of us that's different - the special Homo sapiens bit - is faulty. It doesn't work. Sorry about that.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Sorry #Consistency #Special

Shakespeare drew a map of the human mind as clearly as Newton mapped the heavens. Wht is one considered science and the other fir only to be mocked with jokes about pretty girls and drury lane?
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Girl #Heaven #Mind

In the 1970s, British food was beginning to get good, whereas in France it was just starting its long, sad decline. My most memorable meals, however, have been in Italy.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Memorable #Long #Meals

The nicest characters in A Week in December are, in fact, Muslims - and their religious devotion is one of the things that defines them.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Religious #Character #Facts

Life can be lived at a remove. You trade in futures, and then you trade in derivatives of futures. Banks make more money trading derivatives than they do trading actual commodities.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Derivatives #Commodity #More Money

If I could eat only one thing for the rest of my life, it would be rhubarb fool, which I make with ginger and a hint of elderflower cordial.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Fool #Would Be #Hints

If you have only one life, you cant altogether ignore the question: are you enjoying it?
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Enjoy

I think closeness to death would be pretty exhilarating in a way, and friendship, yeh, and selflessness, a kind of selflessness, a sense of your own worthlessness, I think, is pretty exhilarating.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Thinking #Way #Would Be

There arent many great passages written about food, but I love one by George Millar, who worked for the SOE in the second world war and wrote a book called Horned Pigeon. He had been on the run and hadnt eaten for a week, and his description of the cheese fondue he smells in the peasant kitchen of a house in eastern France is unbelievable.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Running #War #Book

You can't recall someone whose name has worn away.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Names #Worn

That's what opium does to suffering: makes it of hypothetical interest only.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Suffering #Doe #Interest

A bit of the vagueness of music stops you going completely mad, I imagine.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Mad #Vagueness #Imagine

This is how most people live: alive, but not conscious; conscious but not aware; aware, but intermittently.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#People #Alive #Conscious

The past was suddenly rushing in on me in a way I found hard to fight.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Fighting #Past #Rushing

If not just the brain but the quirks that made the individual were composed of recycled matter only, it was hard to be sure where the edges of one such being ended and another person began.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Brain #Matter #Individual

Something had been buried that was not yet dead.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Buried

He saw a picture in his mind of a terrible piling up of the dead. It came from his contemplation of the church, but it had its own clarity: the row on row, the deep rotting earth hollowed out to hold them, while the efforts of the living, with all their works and wars and great buildings, were no more than the beat of a wing against the weight of time.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#War #Wings #Effort

He wrote one more paragraph for his own sake, to see what he had to say.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Sake #Paragraph

The physical shock took away the pain of being.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Pain #Shock

One of the hardest things about being alive is being with other people.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#People #Alive #Hardest

I'd never chosen to be alone, but that was the way things had turned out, and I'd grown used to it.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Way #Used #Chosen

We all operate on different levels of awareness. Half the time I don't know what I'm doing.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Levels #Different #Half

The men loved jokes, though they had heard each one before. Jack's manner was persuasive; few of them had seen the old stories so well delivered. Jack himeself laughed a little, but he was able to see the effect his performance had on his audience. The noise of their laughter roared like the sea in his ears. He wanted it louder and louder; he wanted them to drown out the war with their laughter. If the could should loud enough, they might bring the world back to its senses; they might laugh loud enough to raise the dead.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Laughter #War #Men

If at the one moment in your life when the chance of something transcendental is offered to you, if you have this chance to move beyond the surface of things, to understand - and you say, No, maybe not... What then? How do you explain the rest of your life to yourself? How do you pass the time until you die? Do you substitute for that an interest in what - eating? Do you spend the next sixty years trying to be fascinated by the act of breathing?
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Moving #Years #Breathing

I suppose that each of us may have a great moment in our life, a month, a week a year, when we are most fully what we are meant to be
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Years #May #Months

Sometimes my whole life seems like a dream; occasionally I think that someone else has lived it for me. The events and the sensations, the stories and the things that make me what I am in the eyes of other people, the list of facts that make my life ... They could be mine, they might be yours.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Dream #Eye #Thinking

I know. I was there. I saw the great void in your soul, and you saw mine.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Reflection #Soul #Void

Some crime against nature is about to be committed. I feel it in my veins. These men and boys are grocers and clerks, gardeners and fathers - fathers of small children. A country cannot bear to lose them.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Country #Children #Father

I never for a moment considered killing myself, because it wouldn't have achieved anything.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Moments #Killing

The thought of all that happiness was hard to bear. What's the point of happiness when all it does is throw the facts of dying into clear relief?
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Dying #Relief #Facts

The thing about opium is that it makes pain or difficulty unimaginable.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Pain #Difficulty #Opium

Why take drugs specifically designed to send you insane?
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Drug #Insane

That sense of happiness just out beyond my reach - I'm not sure I'd grasped that exactly, but I'd got something close to it, contentment maybe, or at least a functioning routine with regular rewards.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Contentment #Rewards #Routine

As he rounded the corner, he saw two dozen men, naked to the waist, digging a hole thirty yards square at the side of the path. For a moment he was baffled. It seemed to have no agricultural purpose; there was no more planting or ploughing to be done. Then he realized what it was. They were digging a mass grave. He thought of shouting an order to about turn or at least to avert their eyes, but they were almost on it, and some of them had already seen their burial place. The songs died on their lips and the air was reclaimed by the birds.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Song #Eye #Men

I am driven by a greater force than I can resist. I believe that force has its own reason and its own morality even if they may never be clear to me while I am alive
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Believe #Alive #May

I don't think you ever understand your life - not till it's finished and probably not then either. The more I live the less I seem to understand.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Thinking

All my life I had lived on the presumption that there was no existence beyond... flesh, the moment of being alive... then nothing. I had searched in superstition... But there was nothing. Then I heard the sound of my own life leaving me. It was so... tender. I regretted that I had paid it no attention. Then I believed in the wisdom of what other men had found before me... I saw that those simple things might be true... I never wanted to believe in them because it was better to fight my own battle. You can believe in something without compromising the burden of your own existence.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Believe #Fighting #Simple

But I think if any song can touch the heart, then one should value it.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Song #Heart #Thinking

It's better to have a malign providence than an indifferent one.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Providence #Indifferent

Depression - that limp word for the storm of black panic and half-demented malfunction - had over the years worked itself out in Charlotte's life in a curious pattern. Its onset was often imperceptible: like an assiduous housekeeper locking up a rambling mansion, it noiselessly went about and turned off, one by one, the mind's thousand small accesses to pleasure.
-- Sebastian Faulks

#Depression #Years #Black