Christina Baker Kline famous quotes

03-24-2025

I learned long ago that loss is not only probable but inevitable. I know what it means to lose everything, to let go of one life and find another. And now I feel, with a strange, deep certainty, that it must be my lot in life to be taught that lesson over and over again.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Letting Go #Mean #Loss
Time constricts and flattens, you know. It's not evenly weighted. Certain moments linger in the mind and others disappear.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Mind #Moments #Disappear
It's human nature to want to think the best of others, but if you listen carefully, people will always tell you who they are.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Thinking #People #Want
So is it just human nature to believe that things happen for a reason - to find some shred of meaning even in the worst experiences?
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Believe #Human Nature #Reason
I like the assumption that everyone is trying his best, and we should all just be kind to each other.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Trying #Be Kind #Assumption
I love you," he writes again and again. "I can't bear to live without you. I'm counting the minutes until I see you." The words he uses are the idioms of popular songs and poems in the newspaper. And mine to him are no less cliched. I puzzle over the onionskin, trying to spill my heart onto the page. But I can only come up with the same words, in the same order, and hope the depth of feeling beneath them gives them weight and substance. I love you. I miss you. Be careful. Be safe.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Song #Love You #Writing
You got to learn to take what people are willing to give.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#People #Giving #Willing
Do you believe in spirits? Or ghosts?...Yes, I do. I believe in ghosts....They're the ones who haunt us. The ones who have left us behind." "Vivian has come back to the idea that the people who matter in our lives stay with us, haunting our ordinary moments. They're with us in the grocery store, as we turn the corner, chat with a friend. They rise up through the pavement; we absorb them through our soles." "The things that matter stay with you, seep into your skin.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Believe #Ideas #People
She knows too well what it's like to tamp down your natural inclinations, to force a smile when you feel numb....The expression of emotion does not come naturally, so yo learn to fake it. To pretend. To display an empathy you don't really feel. And so it is that you learn to pass, if you're lucky, to look like everyone else, even though you're broken inside.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Expression #Broken #Fake
I've come to think that's what heaven is- a place in the memory of others where our best selves live on.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Memories #Thinking #Self
When something terrible happens, a lifetime of small events and unremarkable decisions, of unresolved anger, and unexplored fears begins to play itself out in ways you least expect. You've been going along from one day to the next, not realizing that all those disparate words and gestures were adding up to something, a conclusion, you didn't anticipate. And later, when you begin to retrace your steps you see that you will need to reach back further than you could have imagined, beyond words and thoughts and even dreams, perhaps to make sense of what happened.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Dream #Play #Decision
And so it is that you learn how to pass, if you're lucky, to look like everyone else, even though you're broken inside.
-- Christina Baker Kline

#Broken #Lucky #Looks

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