Winifred Holtby Quotes:

The things that one most wants to do are the things that are probably most worth doing.

source: - Winifred Holtby (1937). “Letters to a friend”

Topics: Dream, Want

We're so busy resigning ourselves to the inevitable that we don't even ask if it is inevitable. We've got to have courage, to take our future into our hands. If the law is oppressive, we must change the law. If tradition is obstructive, we must break tradition. If the system is unjust, we must reform the system.

Topics: Hands, Law, Unjust, Resigning

The crown of life is neither happiness nor annihilation; it is understanding.

source: - Winifred Holtby (2007). “Virginia Woolf: A Critical Memoir”, Bloomsbury Academic

Topics: Inspirational Life, Understanding, Crowns, Understanding You

But questioning does not mean the end of loving, and loving does not mean the abnegation of intelligence

source: - Winifred Holtby (2011). “South Riding”, p.524, Random House

Topics: Mean, Doe, Ends

A sense of humor is so handy, isn't it? It lets you see both sides of a question so that you never need do anything.

source: - Winifred Holtby (2011). “Mandoa, Mandoa!: A Comedy of Irrelevance”, p.190, Hachette UK

Topics: Humor, Sides, Needs

we are so little, so ignorant, so feeble an infant race crawling on a planet between immensities we haven't even begun to understand, that really we have no grounds for either congratulation or despair.

source: - Winifred Holtby (1937). “Pavements at Anderby: tales of "South riding" and other regions by Winifred Holtby”

Topics: Congratulations, Race, Ignorant, Immensity

Sorrow and frustration have their power. The world is moved by people with great discontents. Happiness is a drug. It can make men blind and deaf and insensible to reality. There are times when only sorrow can give to sorrow.

source: - Winifred Holtby (1937). “Pavements at Anderby: tales of "South riding" and other regions by Winifred Holtby”

Topics: Happiness, Frustration, Reality

You are quite, quite wrong if you think that ... I find your happiness painful. What matters is that happiness - the golden day - should exist in the world, not much to whom it comes. For all of us it is so transitory a thing, how could one not draw joy from its arrival?

Topics: Happiness, Thinking, What Matters, Golden Days

[On golf:] One of the most distressing defects of civilization.

Topics: Golf, Civilization, Defects

it is better to take experience, to suffer, to love, and to remember than to walk unscathed between the fires. I've had most immunities myself - the result of an independent income combined with a personality completely devoid of sexual attractions - the two fires of poverty and passion have therefore never burned me, and I am a lesser person for my safety.

Topics: Independent, Passion, Two, Immunity

I am much perturbed by this business of sickness. Our bodies seem so easily to leap into the saddle where our minds should be. People who are ill become changelings.

source: - Winifred Holtby, Alice Holtby (1941). “Letters to a friend”

Topics: People, Mind, Body, Changelings

no truth is strong enough to defeat a well-established legend.

source: - Winifred Holtby (1937). “Pavements at Anderby: tales of "South riding" and other regions by Winifred Holtby”

Topics: Strong, Legends, Defeat

Life flows on over death as water closes over a stone dropped into a pool. ... Fate is certain; death is certain; but the courage and nobility of men and women matter more than these.

Topics: Fate, Men, Water, Certain Death

why haven't we seventy lives? One is no use.

Topics: Use

The only difficulty is to know what bits to choose and what to leave out. Novel-writing is not creation, it is selection.

Topics: Writing, Creation, Difficulty, Novel Writing

Really, trees are nearly as important as men, and much better behaved.

source: - Winifred Holtby, Alice Holtby (1941). “Letters to a friend”

Topics: Men, Tree, Important

Those who prepare for war get it.

Topics: War

If you are rich, you have lovely cars, and jars full of flowers, and books in rows, and a wireless, and the best sort of gramophone and meringues for supper.

Topics: Flower, Book, Car, Wireless

Surely, if life is good, it is good throughout its substance; we cannot separate men's activities from women's and say, these are worthy of praise and these unworthy ...

Topics: Life Is Good, Equality, Men

I would, if I could, always feed to music. The singularly graceless action of thus filling one's body with roots and dead animals and powdered grain is given some significance then. One can perform as a ritual what one is shamed to do as a utilitarian action ...

source: - Winifred Holtby, Alice Holtby (1941). “Letters to a friend”

Topics: Animal, Roots, Body

This alone is to be feared - the closed mind, the sleeping imagination, the death of the spirit. The death of the body is to that, I think, a little thing.

source: - Winifred Holtby, Vera Brittain (1960). “Selected letters of Winifred Holtby and Vera Brittain, 1920-1935”

Topics: Sleep, Thinking, Imagination, Closed Mind

What a strange distance there is between ill people and well ones.

Topics: Distance, People, Strange

I am fierce for work. Without work I am nothing.

Topics: Hard Work, Fierce

public work brings a vicarious but assured sense of immortality. We may be poor, weak, timid, in debt to our landlady, bullied by our nieces, stiff in the joints, shortsighted and distressed; we shall perish, but the cause endures; the cause is great.

Topics: Niece, Debt, May, Vicarious

We each live in a private, distorted, individual world - stars turning in space, warmed for a moment by each other's light, then lost in infinite distance.

source: - Winifred Holtby (2011). “Mandoa, Mandoa!: A Comedy of Irrelevance”, p.193, Hachette UK

Topics: Stars, Distance, Light

Nature is not silent, and never was a name more derisively inappropriate than when we speak of these non-human creatures who hoot and crow and bray as the dumb animals.

Topics: Animal, Names, Dumb

Progress? It ought to be stopped, that's what I say. If the Lord meant chickens to come out of incubators he'd never have made hens, it stands to reason.

Topics: Change, Progress, Hens

it is the brevity of life which makes it tolerable; its experiences have value because they have an end.

Topics: Ends, Brevity, Values, Brevity Of Life

I advise nobody to drown sorrow in cocoa. It is bad for the figure and it does not alleviate the sorrow.

Topics: Chocolate, Sorrow, Doe, Cocoa, Alleviate

Most gay, conversational, careless, lovely city ... where one drinks golden Tokay until one feels most beautiful, and warm and loved - oh, Budapesth!

Topics: Beautiful, Gay, Europe

I like a bit of color myself, I must say. At my time of life, if you wear nothing but black, people might think you were too mean to change frocks between funerals.

Topics: Mean, Thinking, Color

The more I see of dogs, the more I like children.

Topics: Dog, Children

The world, with all its beauty and adventure, its richness and variety, is darkened by cruelty. Death, if it ends the loveliness, the adventure, ends also that. Death balances the picture.

Topics: Adventure, Balance, World

All adventuring is rash, and all innovations dangerous. But not nearly so dangerous as stagnation and dry rot. From grooves, cliques, clichés and resignation - Good Lord deliver us!

Topics: Innovation, Dry, Lord, Clique, Adventuring

the damned book I am writing is like the driveling of a weak-kneed sea calf. If I were sufficiently strong minded, I should tear it up an start again. But I don't.

Topics: Strong, Book, Writing, Strong Mind, Strong Minded

What with the reviews of critics, the sarcasms of one's friends, the reproaches of one's own taste, there's precious little peace after publishing a book ...

Topics: Book, Sarcasm, Littles

But to write - that is grief and labor; and to read what one has written - how unlike the story as one saw it; how dull, how spirtless - that is enough to send one weeping to bed.

Topics: Grief, Writing, Stories

why, why, when one writes, does a sort of shackle bind one's imagination? I become conscious of a deadening mediocrity, perhaps a form of mental cowardice, and I long to break free, to let my imagination take wings. It doesn't - yet ...

Topics: Writing, Wings, Imagination

Love needs the stiffening of respect, the give and take of equality.

source: - Winifred Holtby (1936). “South Riding”

Topics: Giving, Needs, Give And Take

If we haven't a grouch against Fortune, we seem unable to avoid one against ourselves.

Topics: Fortune, Grouches

I find you in all small and lovely things; in the little fishes like flames in the green water, in the furred and stupid softness of bumble-bees fat as laughter, in all the chiming radiance of warmth and light and scent in the summer garden.

Topics: Summer, Laughter, Stupid, Summer Garden, Lovely Things

The greatest mercy, I have often thought, of the Mediterranean coast lies in its mosquitoes. Did we not suffer from their unwelcome attention, we could not bear our holidays to end.

Topics: Travel, Lying, Holiday

Everybody's tragedy is somebody's nuisance.

Topics: Tragedy, Nuisance

Oh, time betrays us. Time is the great enemy ...

source: - Winifred Holtby (2011). “South Riding”, p.164, Random House

Topics: Time, Enemy, Betray

It's the things you don't do, not the things you do, you feel most sorry for.

Topics: Regret, Sorry, Feels

Is this the final treachery of time, that the old become a burden upon the young?

Topics: Time, Age, Finals, Treachery

Question everyone in authority, and see that you get sensible answers to your questions ... questioning does not mean the end of loving, and loving does not mean the abnegation of intelligence. Vow as much love to your country as you like ... but, I implore you, do not forget to question.

Topics: Country, Mean, Patriotism

There's never been a lack of men willing to die bravely. The trouble is to find a few able to live sensibly.

Topics: Peace, Men, Able, Willing To Die

Progress. There's a good deal too much o' this progress about nowadays, an', what's more, it'll have to stop.

Topics: Progress, Too Much, Deals

Remorse ... is one of the many afflictions for which time finds a cure.

Topics: Regret, Affliction, Cures

the ruder lecturers are, and the louder their voices, the more converts they make to their opinions.

Topics: Voice, Opinion

Youth knows no remedy for grief but death.

Topics: Suicide, Grief, Youth

I can't think why I was cursed with this inordinate desire to write, if the high gods weren't going to give me some more adquate means of expressing myself than that which my present pedestrian prose affords.

Topics: Mean, Writing, Thinking, Pedestrians

Teachers have power. We may cripple them by petty economics; by Government regulations, by the foolish criticism of an uninformed press; but their power exists for good or evil ...

Topics: Teacher, Teaching, Government, Cripples, Government Regulation

When a person that one loves is in the world and alive and well, and pleased to be in the world, then to miss them is only a new flavor, a salt sharpness in experience. It is when the beloved is unhappy or maimed or troubled that one misses with pain.

source: - Winifred Holtby, Vera Brittain (1960). “Selected letters of Winifred Holtby and Vera Brittain, 1920-1935”

Topics: Pain, Love Is, Missing, Sharpness