Charles Baxter famous quotes

Every relationship has at least one really good day. What I mean is, no matter how sour things go, there's always that day. That day is always in your possession. That's the day you remember. You get old and you think: well, at least I had that day. It happened once. You think all the variables might just line up again. But they don't. Not always. I once talked to a woman who said, "Yeah, that's the day we had an angel around.
-- Charles Baxter

#Mean #Good Day #Angel

When you’re in love you don’t have to do a damn thing. You can just be. You can just stay quiet in the world. You don’t have to move an inch.
-- Charles Baxter

#Moving #Love You #World

As my mother once said to me, ‘They’re quite crazy, dear – men are. What you look for is one of them whose insanity is large enough, and calm and generous enough, to include you.
-- Charles Baxter

#Mother #Crazy #Men

Forget art. Put your trust in ice cream.
-- Charles Baxter

#Art #Ice Cream #Forget

In truth, there are only two realities: the one for people who are in love or love each other, and the one for people who are standing outside all that.
-- Charles Baxter

#Reality #Two #People

If you want to see the consequences of ideas, write a story. If you want to see the consequences of belief, write a story in which somebody is acting on the ideas or beliefs that she has.
-- Charles Baxter

#Writing #Ideas #Acting

Say what you want about it, Hell is story-friendly... The mechanisms of hell are nicely attuned to the mechanisms of narrative. Not so the pleasures of Paradise. Paradise is not a story. It's about what happens when the stories are over.
-- Charles Baxter

#Writing #Friendly #Stories

There is no weather in malls.
-- Charles Baxter

#Weather #Malls

At least with pets, and for all I know, people too, intelligence and quick-wittedness have nothing to do with a talent for being loved, or being kind, nothing at all, less than nothing.
-- Charles Baxter

#People #Pet #Be Kind

Everybody should customize their names.
-- Charles Baxter

#Names #Should

I don't think that most women have to prove that they're real women. You live long enough, you graduate to being real.
-- Charles Baxter

#Real #Thinking #Long

The point is that although love may die, what is said on its behalf cannot be consumed by the passage of time, and forgiveness is everything.
-- Charles Baxter

#May #Said #Passage Of Time

Savor the imminent weirdness of the day.
-- Charles Baxter

#Weirdness

As the poet says, all happy couples are alike, it's the unhappy ones who create the stories. I'm no longer a story. Happiness has made me fade into real life.
-- Charles Baxter

#Couple #Real #Unhappy

When you break the heart of the philosopher, you must apply great force and cunning strategy, but when the deed is completed, the heart lies in great stony ruin at your feet. If you succeed in breaking it, the job is done once and for all. It will not be repaired.
-- Charles Baxter

#Broken Heart #Jobs #Lying

What's agitating about solitude is the inner voice telling you that you should be mated to somebody, that solitude is a mistake. The inner voice doesn't care about who you find. It just keeps pestering you, tormenting you ...
-- Charles Baxter

#Mistake #Voice #Solitude

Because it is the Midwest, no one really glitters because no one has to, it's more of a dull shine, like frequently used silverware.
-- Charles Baxter

#Shining #Midwest #Glitter

When blame has been assigned, the story is over.
-- Charles Baxter

#Stories #Blame

My God, the corruptions of literature. It put all these notions into our heads.
-- Charles Baxter

#Literature #Corruption #Notion

Needing something is not the same thing as being interested in the thing itself.
-- Charles Baxter

When I'm writing, I'm waiting to see somebody, and I'm waiting to hear them. It's almost like conjuring spirits out of the air, using your own imaginative instability.
-- Charles Baxter

#Writing #Air #Waiting

You know, there's something heartsick about parties like this. Look at us. We're all pretending to be smart, as if intelligence were the cure for our anguish.
-- Charles Baxter

#Smart #Party #Looks

The worst mistakes I've made have been the ones directed by sweet-natured hopefulness.
-- Charles Baxter

#Sweet #Mistake #Made

There is such a thing as the poetry of a mistake, and when you say, "Mistakes were made," you deprive an action of its poetry, and you sound like a weasel.
-- Charles Baxter

#Mistake #Character #Sound

When all the details fit in perfectly, something is probably wrong with the story.
-- Charles Baxter

#Writing #Destiny #Details

What a midwesterner he was, a thoroughly unhip guy with his heart in the usual place, on the sleeve, in plain sight.
-- Charles Baxter

#Heart #Sight #Guy

The problem with love and God, the two of them, is how to say anything about them that doesn’t annihilate them instantly with the wrong words, with untruth. . . . In this sense, love and God are equivalents. We feel both, but because we cannot speak clearly about them, we end up–wordless, inarticulate—by denying their existence altogether, and, pfffffft, they die.
-- Charles Baxter

#Two #Say Anything #Problem

A novel is not a summary of its plot but a collection of instances, of luminous specific details that take us in the direction of the unsaid and unseen.
-- Charles Baxter

#Writing #Unseen #Details

Literature is not an instruction manual.
-- Charles Baxter

#Literature #Instruction

What's agitating about solitude is the inner voice telling you that you should be mated to somebody, that solitude is a mistake. The inner voice doesn't care about who you find. It just keeps pestering you, tormenting you--if you happen to be me--with homecoming queens first, then girls next door, and finally anybody who might be pleased to see you now and then at the dinner table and in bed on occasion. You look up from reading the newspaper and realize that no one loves you, and no one burns for you.
-- Charles Baxter

#Girl #Queens #Mistake

You think that what I've told you is an anecdote. But really it isn't. It's my whole life. It's the only story I have.
-- Charles Baxter

#Thinking #Anecdotes #Stories

You are a real find and you keep me satisfied, up to a point. After all, I'm a malcontent and you can't change that.
-- Charles Baxter

#Real #Malcontent #Satisfied

Gainfully unemployed, very proud of it, too.
-- Charles Baxter

#Teacher #Retirement #Work

[T]he astonishing purity of pain, how it will not be mixed with any other sensation.
-- Charles Baxter

#Pain #Purity

There's nothing to talk about to strangers anymore, if you know what I mean. Everything I want to say, I say to her.
-- Charles Baxter

#Mean #Want #Stranger

In February, the overcast sky isn’t gloomy so much as neutral and vague. It’s a significant factor in the common experience of depression among the locals. The snow crunches under your boots and clings to your trousers, to the cuffs, and once you’re inside, the snow clings to you psyche, and eventually you have to go to the doctor. The past soaks into you in this weather because the present is missing almost entirely.
-- Charles Baxter

#Past #Doctors #Sky

Before, I was always trying to make my relationships work by means of willpower and forced affability. This time I didn't have to strive for anything. A quality of ease spread over us.
-- Charles Baxter

#Mean #Trying #Quality

At its best, fiction is not a diversion but a means of knowing the world.
-- Charles Baxter

#Mean #Knowing #Fiction