Tobias Wolff famous quotes

Time, which is your enemy in almost everything in this life, is your friend in writing.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Writing #Enemy #Life Is

We are made to persist. that's how we find out who we are.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Perseverance #Determination #Persistence

Fearlessness in those without power is maddening to those who have it.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Fearlessness

A piece of writing is a dangerous thing," he said. "It can change your life.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Inspirational #Writing #Pieces

There are very few professions in which people just sit down and think hard for five or six hours a day all by themselves. Of course it's why you want to become a writer — because you have the liberty to do that, but once you have the liberty you also have the obligation to do it.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Writing #Thinking #People

One of the things that draws writers to writing is that they can get things right that they got wrong in real life by writing about them.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Real #Writing #Real Life

The beauty of a fragment is that it still supports the hope of brilliant completeness.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Support #Brilliant #Fragments

Everything has to be pulling weight in a short story for it to be really of the first order.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Order #Insightful #Weight

Knowing that everything comes to an end is a gift of experience, a consolation gift for knowing that we ourselves are coming to an end. Before we get it we live in a continuous present, and imagine the future as more of that present. Happiness is endless happiness, innocent of its own sure passing. Pain is endless pain.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Pain #Knowing #Imagine

There’s no right way to tell all stories, only the right way to tell a particular story.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Stories #Way #Particular

The very act of writing assumes, to begin with, that someone cares to hear what you have to say. It assumes that people share, that people can be reached, that people can be touched and even in some cases changed. So many of the things in our world lead us to despair. It seems to me that the final symptom of despair is silence, and that storytelling is one of the sustaining arts; it’s one of the affirming arts. A writer may have a certain pessimism in his outlook, but the very act of being a writer seems to me to be an optimistic act.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Art #Writing #Optimistic

You felt it as a depth of ease in certain boys, their innate, affable assurance that they would not have to struggle for a place in the world; that is already reserved for them.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Struggle #Boys #Ease

Memory is funny. Once you hit a vein the problem is not how to remember but how to control the flow.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Memories #Flow #Veins

Reasons always came with a purpose, to give the appearance of a struggle between principle and desire. Principle had power only until you found what you had to have.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Struggle #Giving #Desire

Because I don't have to be careful of people's feelings when I teach literature, and I do when I'm teaching writing.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Teaching #Writing #People

Our memories tell us who we are and they cannot be achieved through committee work, by consulting other people about what happened. That doesn't mean that at all times memories are telling us the absolute truth, but that the main source of who we are is that memory, flawed or not.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Memories #Mean #People

I teach one semester a year, and this year I'm just teaching one course during that semester, a writing workshop for older students in their late 20s and early 30s, people in our graduate program who are already working on a manuscript and trying to bring it to completion.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Graduation #Teaching #Writing

When your power comes from others, on approval, you are their slave. Never sacrifice yourselves - never! Whoever urges you to self-sacrifice is worse than a common murderer, who at least cuts your throat himself, without persuading YOU to do it.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Cutting #Sacrifice #Self

Most of us dont live lives that lend themselves to novelistic expression, because our lives are so fragmented.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Live Life #Expression

I have never been able to understand the complaint that a story is "depressing" because of its subject matter. What depresses me are stories that don't seem to know these things go on, or hide them in resolute chipperness; "witty stories," in which every problem is the occasion for a joke; "upbeat" stories that flog you with transcendence. Please. We're grown ups now.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Depressing #Witty #Stories

When we are green, still half-created, we believe that our dreams are rights, that the world is disposed to act in our best interests, and that falling and dying are for quitters. We live on the innocent and monstrous assurance that we alone, of all the people ever born, have a special arrangement whereby we will be allowed to stay green forever
-- Tobias Wolff

#Dream #Believe #Fall

In writing you work toward a result you won't see for years, and can't be sure you'll ever see. It takes stamina and self-mastery and faith. It demands those things of you, then gives them back with a little extra, a surprise to keep you coming. It toughens you and clears your head. I could feel it happening. I was saving my life with every word I wrote, and I knew it.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Writing #Self #Years

I recall that my workshop leaders were tactful in their ways of acquainting me with my shortcomings as a writer. So much so that I hardly realized they were doing it. I want always to keep that sort of thing in mind when I'm teaching. The way you get better in everything in this life is to make mistakes. Otherwise you're probably doing it right by accident. But you have to do everything wrong before you can really start with some authority to do it right.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Mistake #Teaching #Leader

You don't teach information in a writing workshop.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Writing #Information #Teach

Want! You must want something. What do you want?
-- Tobias Wolff

#Want

But a lot of writers - and I'm one of them - do tend to feel dissatisfied. It makes you a little hard to live with, but it's a goad and does keep you alert and restless.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Writing #Doe #Littles

There are writers who do start doing the same thing again and again and almost inevitably fall into self-parody.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Fall #Writing #Self

Real maturity is the ability to imagine the humanity of every person as fully as you believe in your own humanity.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Real #Believe #Maturity

We each after a while have to become reconciled to what it is that our talents and appetites lead us to.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Talent #Appetite

Writers cannot let themselves be servants of the official mythology. They have to, whatever the cost, say what truth they have to say.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Writing #Cost #Mythology

What writers do is they tell their own story constantly through other people's stories. They imagine other people, and those other people are carrying the burden of their struggles, their questions about themselves.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Struggle #Writing #People

I believe that the short story is as different a form from the novel as poetry is, and the best stories seem to me to be perhaps closer in spirit to poetry than to novels.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Believe #Writing #Different

The human heart is a dark forest.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Heart #Dark #Forests

But as my brother was doing his research for a book about my father, it became his opinion that the most influential anti-semitism my father encountered when he was growing up was from Jews, because his relatives were German Jews, and doctors.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Brother #Growing Up #Father

We even talked like Hemingway characters, though in travesty, as if to deny our discipleship: That is your bed, and it is a good bed, and you must make it and you must make it well. Or: Today is the day of the meatloaf. The meatloaf is swell. It is swell but when it is gone the not-having meatloaf will be tragic and the meatloaf man will not come anymore.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Character #Men #Gone

I try to help people become the best possible editors of their own work, to help them become conscious of the things they do well, of the things they need to look at again, of the wells of material they have not even begun to dip their buckets into.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Editors #People #Trying

One can imagine a world without essays. It would be a little poorer, of course, like a world without chess, but one could live in it.
-- Tobias Wolff

#World #Littles #Chess

Had he learned nothing from all those years of teaching Hawthorne? Through story after story he'd led his boys to consider the folly of obsession with purity - its roots sunk deep in pride, flowering condemnation and violence against others and self.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Teaching #Pride #Boys

You have to be kind of clued into them, they are a world of their own, and most people find them disappointing because the best short stories are not constructed like novels.
-- Tobias Wolff

#People #Stories #World

There's a joy in writing short stories, a wonderful sense of reward when you pull certain things off.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Writing #Joy #Rewards

Perhaps that is why the novel flourished in England. You had these communities that would stay put and people would see one another all the time and cause one another to change and have the opportunity to observe the changes over time.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Change #Opportunity #People

One of the last courses I taught was on the Russian short story, which I love.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Love #Lasts #Taught

I love Chekhov. I could go on all day about him.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Love #Goes On #Chekhov

Like so many writers I started writing stories because I didn't have much time for anything else.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Time #Writing #Stories

It's probably why I'm a short story writer. I tend to remember things in the past in narrative form, in story form, and I grew up around people who told stories all the time.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Time #Past #People

Work for most people is really very social, and the actual thinking is often done in community.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Work #Thinking #People

You boys know what tropism is, it's what makes a plant grow toward the light. Everything aspires to the light. You don't have to chase down a fly to get rid of it - you just darken the room, leave a crack of light in a window, and out he goes. Works every time. We all have that instinct, that aspiration. Science can't dim that. All science can do is turn out the false lights so the true light can get us home.
-- Tobias Wolff

#Home #Boys #Light