Florida Scott-Maxwell famous quotes

My kitchen linoleum is so black and shiny that I waltz while I wait for the kettle to boil. This pleasure is for the old who live alone.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Waiting #Kitchen #Black

Life does not acommodate you, it shatters you. It is meant to, and it couldn't do it better. Every seed destroys its container or else there would be no fruition.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Doe #Would Be #Fruition

No matter how old a mother is, she watches her middle-aged children for signs of improvement.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Mother #Children #Age

Age puzzles me. I thought it was a quiet time. My seventies were interesting, and fairly serene, but my eighties are passionate. I grow more intense as I age. To my own surprise I burst out with hot conviction. Only a few years ago I enjoyed my tranquility; now I am so disturbed by the outer world and by human quality in general that I want to put things right, as though I still owed a debt to life. I must calm down. I am far too frail to indulge in moral fervor.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Years #Interesting #Age

Age puzzles me. I thought it was a quiet time. My seventies were interesting and fairly serene, but my eighties are passionate. I grow more intense as I age.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Interesting #Age #Passionate

I grow more intense as I age.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Age #Aging #Intense

Difficulties are what makes it honorable and interesting to be alive.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Interesting #Alive #Honorable

In very truth the days are almost free, and if it is another way of saying that our lives are empty, well -- there are days when emptiness is spacious, and non-existence elevating . . .
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Emptiness #Empty

To know another, and to be known by another--that is everything.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

Admiration is one of the chief delights of living.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Delight #Admiration #Chiefs

We must find out for ourselves, otherwise it wouldn't be discovery.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Discovery

Is life a pregnancy? That would make death a birth.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Death #Pregnancy #Birth

I want to tell people approaching and perhaps fearing old age that it is a time of discovery. If they say "Of what?" I can only answer "We must find out for ourselves, otherwise it wouldn't be discovery."
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Discovery #People #Age

Difference of opinion has never been sufficiently appreciated. It is the unexpected, the unknowable, the divine irrationality of life that saves us.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Differences #Serious #Opinion

We who are old know that age is more than a disability. It is an intense and varied experience, almost beyond our capacity at times, but something to be carried high.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Age #Disability #Intense

The enchantment of the sky, ever changing beauty almost ignored. Beyond words, without fixed form, not to be understood, or stated. It ravished away dullness, worry, even pain. It graces life when nothing else does. It is the first marvel of the day. Even when leaden grey it is still a friend, withdrawn for a time.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Pain #Sky #Worry

It sometimes looks as though woman would not be woman unless man insisted upon it, since she tends so markedly to be just a human being when away from men, and only on their approach does she begin to play her required role.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Women #Play #Doe

life is a tragic mystery. We are pierced and driven by laws we only half understand, we find that the lesson we learn again and again is that of accepting heroic helplessness.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Life #Law #Half

I wonder why love is so often equated with joy when it is everything else as well. Devastation, balm, obsession, granting and receiving excessive value, and losing it again. It is recognition, often of what you are not but might be. It sears and it heals. It is beyond pity and above law. It can seem like truth.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Love Is #Law #Joy

love at any age takes everything you've got.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Age

She [a mother] never outgrows the burden of love, and to the end she carries the weight of hope for those she bore. Oddly, very oddly, she is forever surprised and even faintly wronged that her sons and daughters are just people, for many mothers hope and half expect that their new-born child will make the world better, will somehow be a redeemer. Perhaps they are right, and they can believe that the rare quality they glimpsed in the child is active in the burdened adult.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Daughter #Mother #Children

Another secret we carry is that though drab outside - wreckage to the eye, mirrors a mortification - inside we flame with a wild life that is almost incommunicable.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Eye #Mirrors #Flames

One hardly dares to say that love is the core of the relationship, though love is sought for and created in relationship; love is rather the marvel when it is there, but it is not always there, and to know another and to be known by another - that is everything.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Love Is #Love Relationship #Dare

Our age is so gregarious that there is at present a marked prejudice against anyone being alone. It is looked down on, and a need to be alone is almost considered a fault, a weakness, as though if one cannot endure - more - enjoy being with other people every minute one is aloof, unreal, and somehow to be pitied.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#People #Solitude #Age

What fun it is to generalize in the privacy of a note book. It is as I imagine waltzing on ice might be. A great delicious sweep in one direction, taking you your full strength, and then with no trouble at all, an equally delicious sweep in the opposite direction. My note book does not help me think, but it eases my crabbed heart.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Fun #Book #Heart

One cannot be honest even at the end of one's life, for no one is wholly alone. We are bound to those we love, or to those who love us, and to those who need us to be brave, or content, or even happy enough to allow them not to worry about us. So we must refrain from giving pain, as our last gift to our fellows.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Pain #Giving #Worry

Claim the events of your life! When you posses all you have been and done, you are fierce with reality.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Life #Reality #Events

Is there any stab as deep as wondering where and how much you failed those you loved.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Pain #Wonder

Anger must be the energy that has not yet found its fight channel.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Fighting #Atheism #Energy

as we age we are more alive than seems likely, convenient, or even bearble. Too often our problem is the fervor of life within us. My dear fellow octogenarians, how are we to carry so much life, and what are we to do with it?
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Age #Alive #Problem

As I do not live in an age when rustling black skirts billow about me, and I do not carry an ebony stick to strike the floor in sharp rebuke, as this is denied me, I rap out a sentence in my note book and feel better. If a grandmother wants to put her foot down, the only safe place to do it these days is in a note book.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Rap #Book #Grandmother

I wonder if living alone makes one more alive. No precious energy goes in disagreement or compromise. No need to augment others, there is just yourself, just truth - a morsel - and you.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Solitude #Energy #Needs

I feel most real when alone, even most alive when alone. Better to say that the liveliness of companionship and the liveliness of solitude differ, and the latter is never as exhausting as the former.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Real #Solitude #Alive

Making those we love happy sounds innocent as a dove, but it can be as destructive as a lion.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Sound #Lions #Innocent

The crucial task of old age is balance: keeping just well enough, just brave enough, just gay and interested and starkly honest enough to remain a sentient human being.
-- Florida Scott-Maxwell

#Gay #Brave #Balance