Judith Guest famous quotes

Geez, if I could get through to you, kiddo, that depression is not sobbing and crying and giving vent, it is plain and simple reduction of feeling. Reduction, see? Of all feeling. People who keep stiff upper lips find that it's damn hard to smile.
-- Judith Guest

#Depression #Simple #People

Depression is not sobbing and crying and giving vent, it is plain and simple reduction of feeling.
-- Judith Guest

#Depression #Simple #Giving

And if you ever do a survey, you'll find that people prefer illusion to reality, ten to one. Twenty, even.
-- Judith Guest

#Reality #People #Twenties

Make notes—I’ve lost more material than I’ve ever written. Contrary to popular opinion, it’s not still up there in one’s brain. It’s in outer space and it ain’t coming back.
-- Judith Guest

#Space #Brain #Opinion

Two separate, distinct personalities, not separate at all, but inextricably bound, soul and body and mind, to each other, how did we get so far apart so fast?
-- Judith Guest

#Break Up #Two #Personality

People that keep stiff upper lips find that it's hard to smile.
-- Judith Guest

#Life #People #Lips

Ours was not a political household, when I was growing up.
-- Judith Guest

#Growing Up #Political #Growing

Some people with awful cards can be successful because of how they deal with the tragedies they're handed, and that seems courageous to me.
-- Judith Guest

#Successful #People #Tragedy

Haven't lost your sense of humor after all but your sense of identity is what seems to have been misplaced. No. Wrong. You don't lose what you never had.
-- Judith Guest

#Identity #Sense Of Humor #Lost

...let the emotional weight of a scene rest on the dialogue wherever possible. This is the easy way to avoid overinterpretation, which seems to be what turns a scene from sympathetic to sentimental.
-- Judith Guest

#Emotional #Weight #Way

Sometimes you are being interviewed by someone and you think, if I knew this person they'd be my best friend. Other times you're being interviewed by a complete jerk.
-- Judith Guest

#Friendship #Thinking #My Best Friend

For me being depressed means you can spend all day in bed, and still not get a good night's rest.
-- Judith Guest

#Good Night #Mean #Insomnia

Life is not a series of pathetic, meaningles actions. Some of them are so far from pathetic, so far from meaningless as to be beyond reason, maybe beyond forgiveness.
-- Judith Guest

#Action #Life Is #Reason

Depending on the reality one must face, one may prefer to opt for illusion.
-- Judith Guest

#Reality #People #May

And do not be paralyzed. It is better to move than to be unable to move, because you fear loss so much: loss of order, loss of security, loss of predictability.
-- Judith Guest

#Moving #Loss #Order

The 'creator' and the 'editor' - two halves of the writer whole - should sleep in separate rooms.
-- Judith Guest

#Sleep #Editors #Two

Writers don't write to inform other people, they write to find out something themselves.
-- Judith Guest

#Writing #People

Jesus but people got weird when they lived alone.
-- Judith Guest

#Jesus #People #Solitude

... the monotonous beauty of wealth.
-- Judith Guest

#Wealth #Monotonous

I've never been one to tear the social fabric.
-- Judith Guest

#Tears #Fabric #Social

It's true that every day away from work requires two more days to get back into it.
-- Judith Guest

#Work #Two

My success is not who I am.
-- Judith Guest

#Success #Who I Am

It's always obvious to me when someone is looking at me with an idea of who I am and hoping that that's the person I'm going to be. No matter how subtle it is, it's there, and you want to give them who they really want. But it ain't me.
-- Judith Guest

#Who I Am #Ideas #Giving

Some people have an unrealistic expectation when it comes to getting published; the fact is most publishers will turn down your work which is why you need to be persistent.
-- Judith Guest

#People #Expectations #Needs

Make peace with what is.
-- Judith Guest

#Peace #Making Peace

Always good to have one crazy in the family ... It takes the pressure off everybody else.
-- Judith Guest

#Crazy #Pressure #Mental Illness

Don't put anyone out of your heart, there's room for all.
-- Judith Guest

#Heart #Rooms

Riding the train gives him too much time to think, he has decided. Too much thinking can ruin you.
-- Judith Guest

#Thinking #Giving #Riding

The small seed of despair cracks open and sends experimental tendrils upward to the fragile skin of calm holding him together.
-- Judith Guest

#Despair #Skins #Together

. . . crazy world or maybe it's just the view we have of it, looking through a crack in the door, never being able to see the whole room, the whole picture.
-- Judith Guest

#Crazy #Doors #Views

Feeling is not selective, I keep telling you that. You can’t feel pain, you aren’t gonna feel anything else, either.
-- Judith Guest

#Pain #Feelings #Feels

I can write for a long time on one novel and not get tired.
-- Judith Guest

#Writing #Tired #Long

I think living the blessed life is the luck of the draw.
-- Judith Guest

#Blessed #Thinking #Luck

I am also working on a couple of short stories for anthologies. This is new to me and Im enjoying it.
-- Judith Guest

#Couple #Stories #Anthology

With my friends, I don't feel pressure to be someone other than who I am.
-- Judith Guest

#Who I Am #Pressure #Feels

I notice when I'm on these trips, I read like mad. It's the only thing that seems to center me, bring me back to remembering who I am. Or forgetting who I am!
-- Judith Guest

#Who I Am #Mad #Remember

You have to live your life according to what comforts you, not what the rest of your family thinks you ought to be doing.
-- Judith Guest

#Family #Thinking #Live Your Life

To have a reason to get up in the morning, it is necessary to have some kind of guiding principle. A belief of some kind
-- Judith Guest

#Morning #Principles #Belief