Jonathan Carroll famous quotes

My memory loves you… it asks about you all the time.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Memories #Love You

Sometimes it is the smallest thing that saves us: the weather growing cold, a child's smile, and a cup of excellent coffee.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Children #Coffee #Weather

You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover's arms can only come later when you're sure they won't laugh if you trip.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Love #Life #Valentines Day

The only two important things in life are real love and being at peace with yourself.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Life #Real #Two

For an adult, eating alone at McDonald's is admitting a kind of defeat.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Mcdonalds #Adults #Admitting

The fact that I’m silent doesn’t mean I have nothing to say.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Mean #Facts #Silent

Why do people always gesture with their hands when they talk on the phone?
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Phones #Hands #People

Krakow is one of my favorite places on earth. It is a medieval city full of young people. A wonderful, striking combination.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Cities #People #Favorite Places

Fear pounds on the door to our heart demanding to be let in. Joy is modest and often comes into our lives like a shy person entering a room; it can take a while to even notice it's there.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Fear #Heart #Doors

Everyone coming out of a perfume store is smelling the back of their hand.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Hands #Coming Out #Stores

Dogs are minor angels, and I don't mean that facetiously. They love unconditionally , forgive immediately, are the truest of friends, willing to do anything that makes us happy
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Dog #Mean #Angel

May this house stand until an ant drinks the ocean and a tortoise circles the world.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Ocean #Circles #House

Even the handsomest men do not have the same momentary effect on the world as a truly beautiful woman does.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Beautiful #Men #Doe

The problem with waiting for someone, whether that wait is an hour or a lifetime, is everyone's 'clock' is different. So what you might consider forever is only a little while to them, or vice versa.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Waiting #Forever #Vices

Both young children and old people have a lot of time on their hands. That's probably why they get along so well.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Time #Children #Hands

Everything you want in life has teeth.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Teeth #Want

People who truly love us can be divided into two categories: those who understand us, and those who forgive us our worst sins. Rarely do you find someone capable of both.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Two #People #Liking Someone

I read less of everything now. With only fond memories of others' work, it will be interesting to give my own journal writing a try now.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Memories #Writing #Giving

Women are always complaining about men's fascination with breasts. But what if men were absolutely indifferent to breasts? What would women do then with these things that serve one function once or twice in a lifetime, and the rest of the time are just in the way?
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Men #What If #Way

I started a short story but it was so dreary that even my pen threw up.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Stories #Short Story #Pens

The future is fastidious and punctual. It keeps perfect time and arrives everywhere on the dot. In contrast, its slacker brother the past has no use for clocks or appointments. It comes and goes as it pleases in our memory, camping out wherever the hell it damn well wants to in there. Untrustworthy, prone to exaggeration, biased- you wouldn't lend it ten cents, but it *sure* can be charming and seductive when it feels like it.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Brother #Memories #Past

There are people we meet in life who miss being important to us by inches, days, or heartbeats. Another place or time or a different emotional frame of mind and we would willingly fall into their arms; gladly take up their challenge or invitation. But as it is, we encounter them when we are discontent or content and they are not. Whatever they are, we are not and vice versa. Two trains going in different directions that pass for a few powerful moments at full speed, blasting noise and wind but then they are gone. Whatever serious chemistry might have been possible if, isn’t.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Powerful #Fall #Emotional

Buying a pair of shoes is one of the most optimistic acts I know, next to falling in love. I like nothing better than to see an old man wearing a brand new pair of brogues or cap-toed oxfords, preferably jaunty orange-brown, unscuffed, heels unworn. We want to be here tomorrow, but buying new shoes, like falling in love, says I plan on being here tomorrow.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Falling In Love #Optimistic #Men

Learn to wait; invariably either things will change or your heart will.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Heart #Waiting

Most men, no matter how well or badly dressed, carry overstuffed, beat up wallets that should have been replaced years ago. Why is that? Every time I see a guy take out a wallet anywhere, it looks like a piece of old melted chocolate cake-with strings.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Men #Years #Cake

Ive never seen myself as a fantasy writer-ever.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Fantasy

I find you write with one person in mind. Usually for me that one person is my wife, because she's my most severe critic and understands best what I'm trying to do.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Writing #Wife #Mind

I have never heard anyone say This is it. I know right now is the high point of my life. It will never get any better. Only in retrospect do we recognize the best times and of course then it is too late.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Too Late #Retrospect #Heard

I write about what interests me. It's very dangerous when you try to satisfy an audience.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Writing #Trying #Dangerous

Writing a short story is like having a short intense affair, whereas writing a novel is like a long rich marriage.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Writing #Long #Stories

The keys that unlock the heart are made of funny materials: a disarming phrase that comes out of the blue, nowhere, a certain sexy walk that sends you reeling, the way someone hums when she is alone. My father said it was the way my mother danced with him.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Sexy #Mother #Father

How easily we ignore or forget the small kindnesses and considerations in life which are really the only everyday magic we witness on a regular basis. Just think- to make happiness out of nothing more than a few kind words or a generous gesture.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Kindness #Thinking #Magic

Very often I'll find out at the end of a book what I put in at the beginning. A sort of process of elimination and discovery in one.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Book #Discovery #Elimination

I feel like a cliche.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Cliche #Feels

Most men think they are good drivers. Most women think they are good in bed. They aren't.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Men #Thinking #Bed

You know people don't get better as we get older- we just get more of who we are.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#People #Get Better #Who We Are

Just write about what bites you and damn the rest.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Writing

People are always waiting to be discovered.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#People #Waiting

If I don't feel like writing today or for a few days, I don't. And I don't think about it. It is not an obligation-it is the greatest privilege.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Writing #Thinking #Today

Some people are like blue jeans- the older and more beat up they get, the better they look.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Blue #Jeans #People

There's almost always a point in a book where something happens that triggers the rest of the plot.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Book #Plot #Triggers

Although our emotions sometimes behave like spoiled, selfish children, unfortunately we cannot send them to their room or tell them to stop screaming.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Children #Selfish #Rooms

The first great real intimacy between two people begins when secrets are told.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Real #Two #People

The Viennese wash everything. Where else in the world does the government hire public servants to wash public telephone booths and the glass over traffic lights? Every time I see someone doing these things, I smile like a child.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Smile #Children #Glasses

Old people are often impatient, but for what?
-- Jonathan Carroll

#People #Impatient #Old People

When I was in college, I was the editor of the literary magazine and insisted neither the editors nor the writers be specifically identified-only our student numbers appeared on the title page. I love that idea and still do.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#College #Editors #Ideas

Coffee on an airplane always smells bad. Whenever it is served, suddenly the whole cabin stinks of it.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Coffee #Airplane #Smell

Kids own nothing. Everything is either promised, borrowed, longed for or exaggerated.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Kids

Its easy to lose sight of what you want when you think you want everything.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Thinking #Sight #Want

When you love someone deeply, you know secrets they haven't told you yet. Or secrets they aren't even aware of themselves. ... She was also the person I wanted to share the trivia of my life with, because that too is part of the magic of concern: Whatever you live is important to them and they will help you through it.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#When You Love Someone #Magic #Secret

Death doesn't make you sad- it makes you empty. That's what's so bad about it. All of your charms and beliefs and funny habits fall fast through a big black hole, and suddenly you know they're gone because just as suddenly, there's nothing left at all inside.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Fall #Black #Gone

Fear's greatest weapon is its ability to blind one to anything. In its presence, we forget there are others to consider, things to save besides ourselves.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Weapons #Forget #Blind

If it was as logical as that, I wouldn't continue to feel as bad as I do. I know what you're saying, and you're absolutely right in a way. But logic and rationality only go so far. Then you know what happens? Ha! Then your heart adds its two cents and everything reasonable goes right-out-the-window.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Heart #Two #Way

I forgive nothing. If you stole my orange crayon in the fifth grade, you're still on my hit list, buddy.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Orange #Forgiving #Fifth Grade

If you are very lucky, you're allowed to be in certain places during just the right season of your life: by the sea for the summer when you're seven or eight and full of the absolute need to swim until dark and exhaustion close their hands together, cupping you in between.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Summer #Dark #Hands

In Poland, my audience is all women between 18 and 30. At U.S. conventions, you have the fantasy and science fiction crowd. At Harvard you have an entirely different audience. It's so schizophrenic.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Crowds #Different #Fiction

I don't like to have to pan for gold when I read.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Gold

One of the saddest realities is that we never know when our lives are at their peak. Only after it is over and we have some kind of perspective do we realize how good we had it a day, a month, five years ago.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Reality #Years #Perspective

It's always fun to walk down the street with or behind a really beautiful woman, for no reason other than to see how the world reacts to them.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Beautiful #Fun #Journey

The only question that nobody ever asks is: What breaks your heart? I think that should be asked of all "artists."...So, what breaks your heart?
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Heart #Artist #Thinking

If you are a success in life, there are places you must go and pay to be humiliated. It is an unwritten law that human beings must be tormented throughout their lives in one way or another. If you are fortunate enough to have risen to a social level where no one does it to you for free, then you must pay for the service.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Law #Pay #Way

Time talks behind our back. To our face it's friendly and logical, never hesitating to give more of itself. But when we're not looking, it steals our lives and says bad things about us to the parts of us it's stolen
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Giving #Friendly #Faces

At a Boston signing, someone from the audience asked why I was so obsessed with furniture in my books. The question rattled around in my head. I had no idea that I was obsessed with furniture.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Book #Boston #Ideas

Salzburg... is a mountain town with a rushing river running right through the center, everything in the rain various shades of green and brown.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Running #Rain #Rivers

Real love is always chaotic. You lose control; you lose perspective. You lose the ability to protect yourself. The greater the love, the greater the chaos. It’s a given and that’s the secret.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Real #Love Is #Perspective

I would have given him everything. I would have pulled down planets to make our life work.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Given #Planets

At the end of their relationship she asked if they could still remain friends. His face stayed expressionless until he said "No. Because we put friends in boxes. You see them once in a while, or even a lot, but still they have their box in your life, their specific place. Their *category.* That's one of the great things about being someone's love-- you have no box in their life because you're part of all their boxes. You're their friend, their lover, their confidante-- all those things. I don't want to be put in one of your boxes and I don't want to shrink you to fit into one of mine.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Love You #Want #Faces

Reading a book, for me at least, is like traveling in someone else's world. If it's a good book, then you feel comfortable and yet anxious to see what's going to happen to you there, what'll be around the next corner. But if it's a lousy book, then it's like going through Secaucus, New Jersey -- it smells and you wish you weren't there, but since you've started the trip, you roll up the windows and breathe through your mouth until you're done.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Reading #Book #Smell

A short story is a sprint, a novel is a marathon. Sprinters have seconds to get from here to there and then they are finished. Marathoners have to carefully pace themselves so that they don't run out of energy (or in the case of the novelist-- ideas) because they have so far to run. To mix the metaphor, writing a short story is like having a short intense affair, whereas writing a novel is like a long rich marriage.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Running #Writing #Ideas

The angel said, "I like black-and-white films more than color because they're more artificial. You have to work harder to overcome your disbelief. It's sort of like prayer.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Prayer #Angel #Black And White

Yo can always take back the lost parts of yourself if you can find and recognize them.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Lost

Dogs are here to remind us life really is a simple thing. You eat, sleep, take walks, and pee when you must. That's about all there is. They are quick to forgive trespasses and assume strangers will be kind.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Dog #Sleep #Simple

Far more disturbing than any spook house at an amusement park is a ride through the old hometown if you've been away for years.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Years #House #Amusement

Part of life is a quest to find that one essential person who will understand our story. But we choose wrongly so often. Over the ensuing years that person we thought understood us best ends up regarding us with pity, indifference, or active dislike. Those who truly care can be divided into two categories: those who understand us, and those who forgive our worst sins. Rarely do we find someone capable of both.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Years #Two #Forgiving

It took me less than half a lifetime to realize that regret is one of the few guaranteed certainties. Sooner or later everything is touched by it, despite our naive and senseless hope that just this time we will be spared its cold hand on our heart.
-- Jonathan Carroll

#Regret #Heart #Hands