Shonda Rhimes famous quotes

The best stories are often true...The narrative of human life is most beautiful when told truthfully and without boundaries.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Beautiful #Stories #Narrative

Dreams are lovely. But they are just dreams. Fleeting, ephemeral, pretty. But dreams do not come true just because you dream them. It's hard work that makes things happen. It's hard work that creates change.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Dream #Hard Work #Lovely

This moment right here, me standing up here all brown with my ***** and my Thursday night of network television full of women of color, competitive women, strong women, women who own their bodies and whose lives revolve around their work instead of their men, women who are big dogs, that could only be happening right now.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Strong Women #Dog #Night

You can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Inspiring #Drawing #Live Your Life

Cynicism is a choice. Optimism is a better choice.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Optimism #Choices #Brilliant

Mother is not a title. Mother is a verb. It is not who you are. It's what you do.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Mother #Titles #Verbs

The expected is what keeps us steady. It's the unexpected that changes our lives forever.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Forever #Unexpected #Expected

Mother is a verb, not a noun.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Inspirational #Mother #Nouns

Finally I want to say this: if you are a kid and you are out there and you are chubby and not so cute and nerdy and shy and invisible and in pain, whatever your race, whatever your gender, whatever your sexual orientation, I’m standing here to tell you: you are not alone. Your tribe of people, they are out there in the world. Waiting for you.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Cute #Pain #Kids

We all think we’re going to be great and we feel a little bit robbed when our expectations aren’t met. But sometimes our expectations sell us short. Sometimes the expected simply pales in comparison to the unexpected. You got to wonder why we cling to our expectations, because the expected is just what keeps us steady. Standing. Still. The expected's just the beginning, the unexpected is what changes our lives.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Thinking #Expectations #Littles

Making it through the ceiling to the other side was simply a matter of running on a path created by every other woman's footprints.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Inspirational #Running #Matter

Ditch the dream and be a doer.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Dream #Doers

The only limit to success is your own imagination.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Imagination #Limits

Maybe you know exactly what it is you dream of being, or maybe you're paralyzed because you have no idea what your passion is. The truth is, it doesn't matter. You don't have to know. You just have to keep moving forward. You just have to keep doing something, seizing the next opportunity, staying open to trying something new.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Dream #Moving #Passion

Perfect is boring and dreams are not real. Just do. So you think, “I wish I could travel.” Great. Sell your crappy car, buy a ticket to Bangkok, and go. Right now. I'm serious.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Dream #Real #Thinking

I think a lot of people dream. And while they are busy dreaming, the really happy people, the really successful people, the really interesting, engaged, powerful people, are busy doing.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Dream #Powerful #Successful

A hashtag is not helping. A hashtag is not a movement. A hashtag does not make you Dr King. A hashtag does not change anything. It's a hashtag.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Kings #Doe #Drs

Boundaries don't keep other people out, they fence you in.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#People #Boundaries #Fence

I'm a black woman every day, and I'm not confused about that. I'm not worried about that. I don't need to have a discussion with you about how I feel as a black woman, because I don't feel disempowered as a black woman.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Inspiring #Confused #Black

I was 4 and dictating stories into a tape recorder, and my mom typed them up.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Mom #Stories #Tape

Yes, it is hard out there. But hard is relative. I come from a middle-class family, my parents are academics. I was born after the Civil Rights movement, I was a toddler during the women's movement, I live in the United States of America, all of which means I am allowed to own my freedom, my rights, my voice and my uterus.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Mean #Rights #Class

You never know the biggest day of your life is your biggest day, not until it’s happening. You don’t recognize the biggest day of your life, not until you’re right in the middle of it. The day you commit to something or someone. The day you get your heart broken. The day you meet your soul mate. The day you realize there’s not enough time because you wanna live forever. Those are the biggest days. The perfect days.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Heart #Broken #Perfect

At the end of the day, when it comes down to it, all we really want is to be close to somebody. So this thing where we all keep our distance and pretend not to care about each other, it's usually a load of bull. So we pick and choose who we want to remain close to, and once we've chosen those people, we tend to stick close by. No matter how much we hurt them. The people that are still with you at the end of the day, those are the ones worth keeping. And sure, sometimes close can be too close. But sometimes, that invasion of personal space, it can be exactly what you need.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Hurt #Distance #Space

We spend our whole lives worrying about the future, planning for the future, trying to predict the future, as if figuring it out will cushion the blow. But the future is always changing. The future is the home of our deepest fears and wildest hopes. But one thing is certain when it finally reveals itself. The future is never the way we imagined it
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Future #Home #Blow

There's a reason I said I'd be happy alone. It wasn't 'cause I thought I'd be happy alone. It was because I thought if I loved someone and then it fell apart, I might not make it. It's easier to be alone. Because what if you learn that you need love and then you don't have it? What if you like it and lean on it? What if you shape your life around it and then it falls apart? Can you even survive that kind of pain? Losing love is like organ damage. It's like dying. The only difference is death ends. This? It could go on forever.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Pain #Fall #Love Is

Everyone always says to me, 'Why aren't there more people of color on television?' I'm like, 'Why don't you ask a bunch of people who aren't putting people of color on television why there aren't more people of color on television?'
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Funny Inspirational #Color #People

You want to be a writer? A writer is someone who writes every day, so start writing. You don't have a job? Get one. Any job. Don't sit at home waiting for the magical opportunity. Who are you? Prince William? No. Get a job. Go to work. Do something until you can do something else.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Inspiring #Jobs #Home

I remember saying, very almost jokingly, I'm going to take over the world through television, that's my plan. And I said it to my agent, and I said it to my friends, and I said it to myself.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Inspiring #World #Agents

It can be scary to find out you've been wrong about something but we can't be afraid to change our minds, to accept that things are different, that they'll never be the same, for better or for worse. We have to be willing to give up what we used to believe. The more we're willing to accept what is and not what we thought, we'll find ourselves exactly where we belong.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Giving Up #Believe #Scary

When people show you who they are, believe them. I carry that with me a lot. It has served me well.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Believe #People #Shows

Whenever you see me somewhere succeeding in one area of my life, that almost certainly means I am failing in another area of my life.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Mean #Succeed #Failing

I don't understand why people don't understand that the world of TV should look like the world outside of TV.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#People #World #Tvs

Ive learned this is a very long marriage doing a television show. I like the people that I work with to be people I enjoy, so you want to cast people who are as excited and enthusiastic as you are.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#People #Long #Television

I want my daughters to see me and know me as a woman who works. I want that example set for them. I am a better mother for it. The woman I am because I get to run Shondaland, because I get write all day, because I get to spend my days making things up, that woman is a better person  - and a better mother. Because that woman is happy. That woman is fulfilled. That woman is whole. I wouldn't want them to know the me that didn't get to do this all day long. I wouldn't want them to know the me who wasn't doing.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Daughter #Mother #Running

I think it's sad, and weird, and strange that [race in casting] is still a thing. It's 2013. Somebody else needs to get their act together.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Thinking #Race #Together

I never, ever pay attention to the ratings. I stopped paying attention to the ratings somewhere around season two or three of Grey's. It's something I have no control over, so I don't even pay attention.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Two #Three #Attention

Most of the women I saw on TV didn't seem like people I actually knew. They felt like ideas of what women are.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Ideas #People #Saws

You are not alone. You are seen. I am with you. You are not alone.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Not Alone

I don't know if anyone has noticed but I only ever write about one thing: being alone. The fear of being alone, the desire to not be alone, the attempts we make to find our person, to keep our person, to convince our person to not leave us alone, the joy of being with our person and thus no longer alone, the devastation of being left alone. The need to hear the words: You are not alone.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Writing #Joy #Desire

I actually like being alone. I spend most evenings reading and taking long baths.
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Reading #Long #Evening

At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them
-- Shonda Rhimes

#Badass #Drawing #People