Martha Stout famous quotes

Last updated: Sep 5, 2024

I am sure that if the devil existed, he would want us to feel very sorry for him.
-- Martha Stout

#Sorry #Devil #Want
I saw a werewolf drinking a pina colada at Trader Vic's. His hair was perfect.
-- Martha Stout

#Drinking #Hair #Perfect
I am always impressed by the fact that even the tiniest amount of being listened to, the barest suggestion of the possibility of kind treatment, can bring such an immediate rush of emotion. I think this is because we are almost never really listened to. In my work as a psychologist, I am reminded every day of how infrequently we are heard, any of us, or our actions even marginally understood. And one of the ironies of my "listening profession" is its lesson that, in many ways, each of us ultimately remains a mystery to everyone else.
-- Martha Stout

#Thinking #Listening #Lessons
Conscience is a creator of meaning. As a sense of constraint rooted in our emotional ties to one another, it prevents life from devolving into nothing but a long and essentially boring game of attempted dominance over our fellow human beings, and for every limitation conscience imposes on us, it gives us a moment of connectedness with an other, a bridge to someone or something outside of our often meaningless schemes.
-- Martha Stout

#Emotional #Games #Bridges
Conscience is the still small voice that has been trying since the infancy of our species to tell us that we are evolutionarily, emotionally, and spiritually One, and that if we seek peace and happiness, we must behave that way.
-- Martha Stout

#Voice #Trying #Way
The most reliable sign, the most universal behavior of unscrupulous people is not directed, as one might imagine, at our fearfulness. It is, perversely, an appeal to our sympathy.
-- Martha Stout

#People #Might #Imagine
One way or another, a life without conscience is a failed life.
-- Martha Stout

#Way #Conscience
Sociopaths love power. They love winning. If you take loving kindness out of the human brain, there's not much left except the will to win.
-- Martha Stout

#Kindness #Winning #Brain
If courage is acting according to one's conscience despite pain or fear, then strength is the ability to keep conscience awake and in force despite the demands of authorities to do otherwise.
-- Martha Stout

#Pain #Acting #Demand
Controlling othersâ€”winningâ€”is more compelling than anything (or anyone) else.
-- Martha Stout

#Winning #Compelling
A part of a healthy conscience is being able to confront consciencelessness. When you teach your daughter, explicitly or by passive rejection, that she must ignore her outrage, that she must be kind and accepting to the point of not defending herself or other people, that she must not rock the boat for any reason, you are NOT strengthening her posocial sense, you are damaging it-and the first person she will stop protecting is herself.
-- Martha Stout

#Daughter #Rocks #People
We raise our children, especially girls, to ignore their spontaneious reactions-we teach them not to rock the societal boat...By the time she is thirty, the valient little girl's "Ick!"-her tendency to respond, to rock the boat, when someone's actions are really mean, may have been exciese from her behavior, and perhaps from her very mind.
-- Martha Stout

#Girl #Children #Mean
Sociopathy is the inability to process emotional experience, including love and caring, except when such experience can be calculated as a coldly intellectual task.
-- Martha Stout

#Caring #Emotional #Intellectual
In northwest Alaska, kunlangeta "might be applied to a man who, for example, repeatedly lies and cheats and steals things and does not go hunting, and, when the other men are out of the village, takes sexual advantage of many women." The Inuits tacitly assume that kunlangeta is irremediable. And so, according to Murphy, the traditional Inuit approach to such a man was to insist he go hunting, and then, in the absence of witnesses, push him off the edge of the ice.
-- Martha Stout

#Lying #Men #Hunting
We are all a little crazy.
-- Martha Stout

#Crazy #Littles

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