"The experience of a sense of guilt for wrong-doing is necessary for the development of self-control. The guilt feelings will laterserve as a warning signal which the child can produce himself when an impulse to repeat the naughty act comes over him. When the child can produce his on warning signals, independent of the actual presence of the adult, he is on the way to developing a conscience."

-- Selma Fraiberg

#Children Quotes #Independent Quotes #Naughty Quotes

“Please, don't hate me because I am beautiful.”
“Hounds follow those who feed them.”
“Nothing generates more heat in the government than the question of who is chosen to participate in important meetings.”

Source : Richard Holbrooke (2011). “To End a War: The Conflict in Yugoslavia--America's Inside Story--Negotiating with Milosevic”, p.26, Modern Library
“Today is important only in light of what we do for God.”
“Is there a wrong way to say "I don't know"? Yes. When we declare ignorance, it should be a) honest and b) in the spirit of opening ourselves up to hearing, to learning, to receiving. When we say "I don't know" under these conditions, the words can forge connection, healing, growth. But when we resist or disavow knowledge, when we profess ignorance as a way of donning armor and evading accountability, then we make a mockery of those words, and we rupture connections not only with others but within ourselves, within our souls.”
“Songwriting is too mysterious and uncontrolled a process for me to direct it towards any one thing.”
“Modernist architecture and town planning is inimical to human beings... based on the Darwinian concept that evolution is open ended, that there must always be something new and better.”

Source : "The godfather of urban soul". Interview with Peter Hetherington, www.theguardian.com. June 27, 2006.
“If there's a thing I've learned in my life it's to not be afraid of the responsibility that comes with caring for other people. What we do for love: those things endure. Even if the people you do them for don't”

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