Warsan Shire famous quotes

Light attracts light. But sometimes your light attracts moths and your warmth attracts parasites. Protect your space and energy
-- Warsan Shire

#Light #Space #Energy

Why do you live in your body like you will be given another? As if it were temporary. You starve it, you let anyone touch it, you berate it. Tell it that it should be completely different. You tug at your soft flesh, wish it thinner, wish it gone. You fall in love with those who praise the way it sighs under their hands, but who praises the way it holds up your weight, even when you are falling apart?
-- Warsan Shire

#Falling In Love #Hands #Wish

Sad people have the gift of time, while the world dizzies everyone else; they remain stagnant, their bodies refusing to follow pace with the universe. With these kind of people everything aches for too long, everything moves without rush, wounds are always wet.
-- Warsan Shire

#Moving #Long #People

I’m not sad, but the boys who are looking for sad girls always find me. I’m not a girl anymore and I’m not sad anymore. You want me to be a tragic backdrop so that you can appear to be illuminated, so that people can say ‘Wow, isn't he so terribly brave to love a girl who is so obviously sad?’ You think I’ll be the dark sky so you can be the star? I’ll swallow you whole.
-- Warsan Shire

#Girl #Stars #Dark

And you tried to change, didn't you? Closed your mouth more. Tried to be softer, prettier, less volatile, less awake... You can't make homes out of human beings. Someone should have already told you that. And if he wants to leave, then let him leave. You are terrifying, and strange, and beautiful. Something not everyone knows how to love.
-- Warsan Shire

#Break Up #Beautiful #Home

The sun is perfect and you woke this morning. You have enough language in your mouth to be understood. You have a name, and someone wants to call it. Five fingers on your hand and someone wants to hold it. If we just start there, every beautiful thing that has and will ever exist is possible. If we start there, everything, for a moment, is right in the world.
-- Warsan Shire

#Beautiful #Morning #Names

Mother says there are locked rooms inside all women, kitchen of love, bedroom of grief, bathroom of apathy. Sometimes, the men, they come with keys, and sometimes the men, they come with hammers.
-- Warsan Shire

#Mother #Grief #Love Is

Essentially, if our secrets are secrets because we are told to be ashamed, then we must share them. There is no shame in being sad or struggling or trying to heal. We are all desperate, depraved and sacred. We are all terrible and brillIant. I can list all the things that can make a girl want to escape her own body (re: patriarchy). But I’d rather list all the things that make me want to stay in my body, and adorn it like a home, rub oils into my skin, tell it how sorry I am for trying to leave, for trying to hurt it into submission
-- Warsan Shire

#Girl #Hurt #Sorry

Every mouth you’ve ever kissed was just practice. All the bodies you’ve ever undressed and ploughed in to were preparing you for me. I don’t mind tasting them in the memory of your mouth. Was it a long journey? Did it take you long to find me? You’re here now, welcome home.
-- Warsan Shire

#Memories #Home #Journey

Document the moments you feel most in love with yourself - what you're wearing, who you're around, what you're doing. Recreate and repeat.
-- Warsan Shire

#Love You #Moments #Feels

Two people who were once very close can without blame or grand betrayal become strangers. Perhaps this is the saddest thing in the world.
-- Warsan Shire

#Life And Love #Betrayal #Two

I belong deeply to myself.
-- Warsan Shire

#Broken Heart #Heart #Broken

Perhaps, the problem is not the intensity of your love, but the quality of the people you are loving.
-- Warsan Shire

#People #Quality #Problem

We took such care of tomorrow, but died on the way there.
-- Warsan Shire

#Way #Care #Tomorrow

Not everyone is okay with living like an open wound. But the thing about open wounds is that, well, you aren't ignoring it. You're healing; the fresh air can get to it. It's honest. You aren't hiding who you are. You aren't rotting. People can give you advice on how to heal without scarring badly. But on the other hand there are some people who'll feel uncomfortable around you. Some will even point and laugh. But we all have wounds.
-- Warsan Shire

#Healing #Air #Hands

I tore up and ate my own passport in an airport hotel once. I'm bloated with language I can’t afford to forget.
-- Warsan Shire

#Airports #Language #Forget

Give your daughters difficult names. Give your daughters names that command the full use of the tongue. My name makes you want to tell me the truth. My name doesn't allow me to trust anyone that cannot pronounce it right.
-- Warsan Shire

#Daughter #Names #Giving

My alone feels so good, I'll only have you if you're sweeter than my solitude.
-- Warsan Shire

#Being Alone #Solitude #Feels

You are terrifying, and strange, and beautiful. Something not everyone knows how to love.
-- Warsan Shire

#Beautiful #Being Alone #Love Is

I have my mother’s mouth and my father’s eyes; on my face they are still together.
-- Warsan Shire

#Mother #Father #Eye

Don't assume, ask. Be kind. Tell the truth. Don't say anything you can't stand behind fully. Have integrity. Tell people how you feel.
-- Warsan Shire

#Integrity #People #Say Anything

With you, intimacy colors my voice. Even 'hello' sounds like 'come here'.
-- Warsan Shire

#Color #Voice #Sound

At the end of the day, it isn’t where I came from. Maybe home is somewhere I’m going and never have been before.
-- Warsan Shire

#Home #The End Of The Day #Ends

It's not my responsibility to be beautiful. I'm not alive for that purpose. My existence is not about how desirable you find me.
-- Warsan Shire

#Beautiful #Responsibility #Alive

There is no intimacy like that between two women who have chosen to be sisters.
-- Warsan Shire

#Two #Intimacy #Chosen

You can't make homes out of human beings
-- Warsan Shire

#Home #Humans

How far have you walked for men who've never held your feet in their laps?
-- Warsan Shire

#Men #Feet #Lap

I tend to the wound so often, it never heals.
-- Warsan Shire

#Heal #Wounds

Make love like you have no secrets like you've never been left never been hurt like the world don't owe you a single wretched thing.
-- Warsan Shire

#Hurt #Making Love #Secret

I want to love, but my hair smells of war and running and running.
-- Warsan Shire

#Running #War #Smell

I am a lover without a lover. I am lovely and lonely and I belong deeply to myself.
-- Warsan Shire

#Lonely #Being Alone #Lovely

I won't glorify or romanticise heartbreak, for me it was a kind of death and I was forced to keep living.
-- Warsan Shire

#Kind #Glorify

When I love, I love: wholly, thoroughly, completely, drowning in everything. Every glance can be a conversation, eyes just playing and saying what needs to be said. Silence is loud, and the air becomes heavy. I want you. I want all of you.
-- Warsan Shire

#Eye #Air #Silence

Make peace with your body, it's not manmade, there are no flaws, there are no mistakes.
-- Warsan Shire

#Mistake #Body #Flaws

To my daughter I will say, ‘when the men come, set yourself on fire.’
-- Warsan Shire

#Daughter #Men #Fire

Your mouth is a lonely place but I keep coming back.
-- Warsan Shire

#Lonely #Mouths #Coming Back

Later that night, I held an atlas on my lap, ran my fingers across the whole world, and whispered, ‘where does it hurt?’ It answered, everywhere, everywhere, everywhere.
-- Warsan Shire

#Hurt #Night #Lap

Apathy is the same as war, it all kills you, she says. Slow like cancer in the breast or fast like a machete in the neck.
-- Warsan Shire

#War #Cancer #Necks

I know a few things to be true. I do not know where I am going, where I have come from is disappearing, I am unwelcome and my beauty is not beauty here. My body is burning with the shame of not belonging, my body is longing.
-- Warsan Shire

#Body #Burning #Longing

My heart is a flower blossoming out of my mouth.
-- Warsan Shire

#Flower #Heart #Mouths