"In my opinion, sexiness comes down to three things: chemistry, sense of humor, and treatment of waitstaff at restaurants. If the sparks donâ€™t fly from the beginning, they never will. If he doesnâ€™t get your sense of humor from the first conversation, youâ€™ll always secretly be looking for someone who does. And if a guy canâ€™t see restaurant servers as real people, with needs and dreams and crappy jobs, then I donâ€™t want to be with him, even if he just won the Pulitzer Prize."

Rhoda Janzen

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