"In some instances, you may care so much about the person who has hurt you, or be so unable to be angry with him (or with anyone), that you rationalize his hurtful acts by finding some basis in your own actions for his hurtful behavior; you then feel guilty rather than angry. Put in other terms, you become angry with yourself rather than with the one who hurt you."

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Source : Paul Ekman, Wallace V. Friesen (2003). “Unmasking the Face: A Guide to Recognizing Emotions from Facial Clues”, p.79, ISHK

Paul Ekman

#Hurt Quotes #Care Quotes #May Quotes

“Everything seems to be going faster and faster. It's really harder to create something that endures. The New York City Ballet has succeeded in doing that.”
“Gene Autry was the most. It may sound like a joke - Go and have a look in my bedroom, It's covered with Gene Autry posters. He was my first musical influence.”
“And my daddy could play a harmonica and also the guitar, so I guess I got a little bit from both of 'em, but I think mostly from my mother's side of the family.”
“A moment's reflection shows that Liberalism is entirely negative. It is not a formative force, but always and only a disintegrating force.”

Source : Francis Parker Yockey (2013). “Imperium: The Philosophy of History and Politics”, p.275, The Palingenesis Project (Wermod and Wermod Publishing Group)
“If I see someone I'm in awe of I'm like, 'Oh my God. Oh. My. God.' But on the outside I'm very calm. I'd never run up and hassle anyone.”
“It's sort of the mixed blessing of being on television for so long in one thing; sometimes that backfires, in that you're not able to continue on.”

Source : Interview with Noel Murray, www.avclub.com. September 15, 2010.
“I shudder to think of that God would do something like that through me.”
“Step by step Moment by moment We live through Another day”

Source : Anne McCaffrey, Todd McCaffrey (2011). “Dragon's Time”, p.62, Random House

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